Mum diagnosed with stage 4 cancer after doctors dismissed symptoms


Amanda Crossley, pictured centre, first complained of a pain in her stomach when pregnant with her second child

Amanda Crossley, pictured centre, first complained of a ache in her abdomen when pregnant with her second youngster

A mum-of-two has been diagnosed with stage-four bowel cancer months after her issues about symptoms had been repeatedly dismissed.

Amanda Crossley, 32, from Queensland, has a robust household historical past of the illness. Her mom bought it aged 40, her aunty was diagnosed at 35 – and her grandmother had it too. 

However when she went to the physician complaining of ‘textbook’ symptoms of the illness, and with a short define of her household historical past, she was despatched residence.

Chatting with FEMAIL, Amanda stated her physician instructed her the ache she was feeling above her stomach button was possible her ‘abs separating’ as she was 20 weeks pregnant with her second child.

‘I went residence and tried to push by way of however inside weeks the ache was radiating up my proper facet,’ she stated.

When she introduced it up with the physician she was instructed to not fear. 

As soon as her daughter was born Amanda anticipated the ache to go away – as her physician had urged.

As a substitute it bought worse.

‘She then gave me some stool softeners and stated I used to be most likely constipated,’ Amanda stated.

However the softeners didn’t ease the discomfort in any respect.

She was told the pain was a symptom of pregnancy - but it continued after she gave birth

She was instructed the ache was a symptom of being pregnant – nevertheless it continued after she gave start

Doctors gave the 32-year-old laxatives and said she was probably constipated

Doctors gave the 32-year-old laxatives and stated she was most likely constipated

‘I went again each two weeks, I Googled my symptoms and I even instructed her that I ticked each field for bowel cancer,’ she stated.

Her physician then needed to take every week off – so Amanda was left to elucidate to yet one more GP about her points.

The physician additionally urged the laxatives and took exams which revealed the mum’s iron ranges had been low.

‘I needed extra solutions so I went again to my physician every week later and demanded extra exams,’ she stated.

She stated her physician lastly despatched her in for a stool pattern, CT scan and ultrasound.

‘I knew it was cancer for positive when my physician phoned the day after my CT scan and requested me to return in instantly,’ she stated.

‘They had been often very exhausting to get into. I’ll always remember the look on [the doctor’s] face, their eyes instructed me I used to be proper.’

Since her analysis Amanda’s world has been turned the other way up.

The 32-year-old was rushed into surgical procedure days later the place doctors eliminated a 3rd of her bowel.

Weeks later she demanded more tests and a CT scan confirmed her worst fears - she had bowel cancer, a disease her mum, aunt and grandma all fought

Weeks later she demanded extra exams and a CT scan confirmed her worst fears – she had bowel cancer, a illness her mum, aunt and grandma all fought

‘It was keyhole surgical procedure however they needed to reduce one other slit as a result of the mass from the tumour was too large to suit by way of the primary gap,’ she stated. 

Now Amanda is resting at residence – attempting to heal as shortly as doable so she will begin with the subsequent steps – which possible embody chemotherapy.

The mum is decided to beat the cancer and refuses to name the stage-four illness terminal.

‘I’ve two little ladies, I’ll beat this as a result of I’ve no alternative however to beat it,’ she stated.

Doctors have been cautious to elucidate issues to Amanda one step at a time.

The mother-of-two was taken to hospital where a third of her bowel was removed - including the main tumour which was larger than expected

The mother-of-two was taken to hospital the place a 3rd of her bowel was eliminated – together with the principle tumour which was bigger than anticipated

‘They defined it unfold to my liver and lymph nodes however didn’t say way more. I don’t assume they needed to overload me,’ she stated. 

The proficient Googler has continued to look-up extra info on the illness since she was diagnosed.

‘Some individuals to outlive – they usually haven’t talked prognosis – however there may be that statistic there,’ she stated.

Amanda instructed her sister to get checked correctly after the illness was discovered because the cancer is so frequent in her household.

She is now resting at home - but will return to hospital once she has regained her strength - to receive further therapy as the tumour had moved to her liver and lymph nodes

She is now resting at residence – however will return to hospital as soon as she has regained her power – to obtain additional remedy because the tumour had moved to her liver and lymph nodes

Symptoms of bowel cancer: 

– Change in bowel habits with diarrhoea, constipation or the sensation of incomplete emptying

– Skinny or free bowel actions

– Blood or mucous in stools

– Anal or rectal ache 

Lump within the anus or rectum

– Unexplained weight reduction

– Fatigue

– Unexplained anaemia

– Belly ache, bloating and cramping 

Supply: Cancer Council 

‘It makes me terrified that one or each of my ladies will face the identical drawback at some point,’ she stated.

Amanda has met younger individuals with the cancer since being diagnosed and desires doctors to cease dismissing it as ‘an previous man’s illness’.

‘I actually as an entire do like my physician and I believe they do a superb job. I simply want they’d listened to me and don’t need anybody else to undergo this,’ she stated.  

Amanda regrets not pushing more durable or demanding extra exams when she first realised one thing was incorrect. 

She stated she has suffered from digestive points together with bloating and skinny bowel actions ‘for years’.

Blood exams additionally confirmed she had low iron, which went hand-in-hand with the fatigue and ache she was experiencing. 

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